Genesis 1 and the creation story are not about science, and therefore they're not wrong according to science. Dr. John Walton has published some perspectives on Genesis 1-2 that are making a huge impact around the Christian world (
https://www.amazon.com/Lost-World-Genes ... enesis+one). I like his approach. What his analyses of the text have shown are that Gn. 1-2 are accounts of *functional* creation, not that of material creation. In the Bible there is no question that God is the creator of the material universe (and there are texts that teach that), but that's not what Genesis 1-2 are about. They are about how God brought order and functionality to the material universe that was there. And it is just as much a **literal** approach to the text as the traditional. Let me try to explain VERY briefly.
Gn. 1.1 is a heading, not an action. Then, if it's a text about material creation it will start with nothingness, but if it's a text about bringing order, it will start with disorder, which is what Gn. 1.2 says.
The first "day" is clearly (literally) about a *period* of light called day, and a *period* of light called night. It is about the sequence of day and night, evening and morning, literally. Therefore, what Day 1 is about is God ordering the universe and our lives with the function of TIME, not God creating what the physicists call "light," about which the ancients knew nothing.
Look through the whole chapter. It is about how the firmament functions to bring us weather (the firmament above and below), how the earth functions to bring forth plants for our sustenance, how the sun, moon, and stars function to order the days and seasons. We find out in day 6 the function of humans: to be fruitful and multiply, to rule the earth and subdue it. Walton contends that we have to look at the text through ancient eyes, not modern ones, and the concern of the ancients was function and order. (It was a given that the deities created the material universe.) The differences between cultures (and creation accounts) was how the universe functioned, how it was ordered, and what people were for. (There were large disagreements among the ancients about function and order; it widely separates the Bible from the surrounding mythologies.)
And on the 7th day God rested. In the ancient world when a god came to "rest" in the temple, he came to live there and engage with the people as their god. So it is not a day of disengagement, but of action and relationship.
In other words, it's a temple text, not a scientific account of material creation. There was no temple that could be built by human hands that would be suitable for him, so God order the entire universe to function as his Temple. The earth was ordered to function as the "Holy Place," and the Garden of Eden as his "Holy of Holies". Adam and Eve were given the function of being his priest and priestess, to care for sacred space (very similar to Leviticus) and to be in relationship with God (that's what Genesis 2 is about).
As far as the seven days, in the ancient world ALL temple dedications were 7-day dedications, where what God had done to order his world was rehearsed, and on the 7th day God came to "rest" in his temple—to dwell with his people and engage with them as their God. That's what the seven days mean.
As far as evolution, Gn 1-2 make no comment on *how* the material world came about, or how long it took. We need science to tell us that. We need Gn 1-2 to tell us what it's there for (God's temple) and how it is supposed to function (to provide a place of fellowship between God and humans, and to bring God glory as an adequate temple for his Majesty).
> Man was not made from dirt
You're right. There are different interpretations of what "made from dirt" means. The traditional view is that God manufactured Adam out of the raw materials of which the earth already consisted, in other words, the organic matter, chemicals, nutrients, atoms, molecules, energy and substance of the material world. Traditionally it describes a creative process of special creation characterized by discontinuity from the material origins of any pre-existing creature.
A second interpretation, favored by those who believe in theistic evolution, is that it means similar to what Gn. 1.11-12 say about the plants—that God used the earth as source material for humans, and this verse allows for the possibility that they evolved by the same processes and stuff from which the rest of life evolved: from the dust of the earth. Just as the earth brought forth plants, God used the earth to bring forth humanity from its "dust".
The third interpretation, and the one I favor, is the idea that "dust" is an archetype (different from a metaphor or allegory) of humanity's mortality. It's the author's way of saying that humans are mortal, and if God didn't give them the gift of spiritual life (The Tree of Life in Gn. 2.9), there was no hope for them. See also Gn. 3.19; Ps. 103.14, where dust refers to mortality, not to material. If man was not mortal, the Tree of Life would have been unnecessary (immortal people don't need a Tree of Life). People need a Tree of Life as an antidote to the mortality. It's a statement that humans are by nature mortal, not eternal. The New Testament confirms this in 1 Cor. 15.47, where Adam is an archetype of mortality and Jesus is an archetype of resurrection, and both literally existed in history. "Dust" as an archetype tells us that Adam was not the only individual who was mortal; mortality describes us all.
> woman was not made from man
You're right. The deep sleep was a visionary trance, not physical sleep. God is showing Adam a vision about the nature and identity of the woman—that she is related to him as an equal. There was no surgery done (the ancients knew nothing of surgery and wouldn't even think that way). The word for rib (מִצַּלְעֹתָיו [tsal’otav]), is not used anatomically anywhere else in the OT. It's more often architectural—the side of a building or room. The point of the text is that the woman is his equal, his kin, and his match.
> and the earth is not 10,000 years old.
You're right. The age of the earth as being young was set by Bishop Ussher (several centuries ago) doing the math on biblical genealogies, but but now we know that is flawed methodology. In the ancient world, genealogies were not primarily a way of record keeping, but only to establish continuity from one era to another. Their intention is to bridge a gap between major events (success as creation and the flood, the flood and Abraham, etc.) In the ancient world, genealogies were mostly written for political ends to show divine right. There was no attempt to show every generation (as we do) or even chronology at times. That is, there could be rearrangement of the order of names, telescoping (leaving names out), or even changing the ages or lengths of reign to accommodate their political ends.
In the Bible, genealogies (as far as we know) were never rearranged or the ages or lengths of reigns changed, but the biblical authors did telescope generations for theological ends. The genealogies of the era of the monarchy and the Gospels show show they were sometimes fluid with who all belonged to a particular generation to arrive at specific symbolic numbers. For instance, the genealogies between Adam and Noah, and Noah and Abraham, are each set up to contain 10 members with the last having 3 sons. They have telescoped the genealogy to do this. (This type of telescoping also occurs in Assyrian genealogical records.) The ancients didn't think of the genealogies as representing every generation as our modern ones do. These facts were unknown centuries ago when Bishop Ussher was counting the years to determine when creation and the Flood were. We don't take his calculations as accurate Bible teaching. To be frank about it, he was dead wrong. Therefore, we can dismiss all thoughts that the Bible teaches that the earth is younger than 10,000 years or that Noah's flood was around 2350-2250 BC. And we don't have to assume Scripture is incorrect to arrive at that conclusion.
Hope that all helps.