It depends on the person. Most atheists I dialogue with are polite and respectful; only some are antagonistic, a few are hostile, and a handful are downright nasty. But that's more, I assume, because of their personality, not because they're atheists.
Obviously, atheists defend their beliefs and interpretations, just as I do. It's usually fairly good dialogue.
I find that most atheists I dialogue with don't know the Bible very well. A few do. Since almost every question and post is on the same, say 12 subjects, it seems they get their questions, criticisms, and Bible texts from the Internet, not because they've done the research. If they were really reading the Bible, there would be a lot more to talk about, but it always focuses on the same dozen subjects.
> Do you think is an Abomination or good
Neither. Atheists are just normal people trying to make their way through life. (Sure some are downright nasty, but those are the minority, in my experience.)
> do you belive we are uneducated on religion or smart on the subject
It depends on the individual. It's all over the map. It doesn't have to do with atheism, but with whether you are a person who does research or cut-and-pastes sound bites.
I do hear a lot of distortions and misunderstandings, like...
- Religion is a mental disease
- Religion makes otherwise normal people say and do wicked things.
- God is like Santa Clause for grownups.
- My Mom said she’d rather kill her children than deny God, yet called me selfish
- Religion is the enemy of education
- Prayer is a delusional conversation with someone who doesn’t exist.
> do you think we are good people or bad
It depends on the individual, just like anyone else. You'll find good and bad people in every vocation, every religion, every position, every culture. It has nothing to do with atheism.
> do you think we are going to haven or hell
Well, an atheist can't go to heaven. Heaven is for people in a love relationship with Jesus. It's sort of a self-contradiction to think an atheist would want to spend eternity that way.
I do find, in my conversations with atheists on the forum, that almost all of you cannot begin to substantiate what you believe about life and the world. All protests, but no positions. You're antagonistic, but with nothing to defend and nothing to gain. You attack only to bring down, but have nothing to offer. That part is frustrating.
Atheism portrays itself as intellectual, but with no answers to the ultimate questions of life. You believe in science (as do I), but you know science doesn't bring meaning. Intellectual questions eventually turn into questions of meaning, but you just have an empty hand when it comes to questions of meaning. In other words, atheism fails the test of providing sufficient reasons.
I find in my conversations that atheism is like a truth system that doesn't believe in truth, except the truth of science. But science is only good in talking about the natural world, nothing else. It's great where it goes, but it can only operate in its own arena. Atheists can't seem to expand their thoughts any further than science, which I think is limiting.