by jimwalton » Thu Mar 21, 2013 10:43 pm
Hey, your friend is right. There are different degrees of sin, and some sins are worse than others. In Jn. 19.11, at his trial, Jesus said so to Pilate: "The one who handed me over to you is guilty of a greater sin [than yours]." In Luke 12.47-48, Jesus implies the same thing: intentional sin is worse than unintentional sin. Now, hey, let's be realistic. In the parable they both get a beatin'. But there's a difference in the level of guilt (sin), and there's also a difference in the degree of punishment. You'll read the same thing in Leviticus. Look at Lev. 4.2, for instance. The sin offering is for UNINTENTIONAL sin. As you look closely, you'll notice there is no sacrifice for INTENTIONAL sin. Intentional sin is worse.
Now, let's be realistic. Sin is still sin. James 2.10 lets us know that when you sin, you're guilty. It's like whether you stole $100 or $1 million. You're still a thief, and you're still guilty, but one is worse than another. If you have a glass of sewage, and you add a little water, you have (gross) a glass of sewage. But if you have a glass of water and add a little sewage, well, you still have sewage. If you've ever been in a foreign country and some in contact with foul water, all it takes is contact and you're sick. You may think, "Well, I'm not as guilty as the next guy." Well, maybe not, but you're still guilty. Sin is sin, and sin brings guilt, and when it is full grown, it gives birth to death (James 1.15).
Now here's another point: There may be degrees of sin, and some are worse than others, but we haven't been given the list of which are worse. So it's not our place to judge other people, or to think of ourselves more highly than we ought.
Ask more if I haven't been clear about something.