by jimwalton » Thu Feb 13, 2014 5:36 pm
A lot of what happens in the Bible, while still historical, is like a living parable. There are spiritual lessons in what happens and the way it happens, and it teaches us things about the character of God and about ourselves in how we interact with God.
In Gn. 32, as missing7 said below (or above, depending where reddit puts this post!), Jacob has lived a life of wrestling with God. He's a contentious, deceitful, conniving old goat who wants to do things his own way. The nighttime WWF match is a parable of his life, and God's message to him about his future. So don't doubt that there were actually two men grappling in the dirt—there were. But don't make the mistake of thinking that's the main point here.
Jacob has the strength to resist God. We all do. But God is determined to bless Jacob, and wants him to stop fighting and rebelling before he gives it. Hence the real life parable. Jacob's life was built on the principle of "I'll do it MYYYYYYYY way!" "I'm clever enough; I'm strong enough; I'm crappy enough."
Now, God doesn't mind our honest questions and being grappled with. The Bible contains many stories of people grappling with God. That's a good thing—God wants us to engage, to struggle, to seek. But it was time for Jacob to learn, and to submit.
Gn. 32.25: "When the man saw that he could not overpower him..." This is not to claim that Jacob is pinning him to the ground and the guy is ready to tap out. It's about that after a life of resistance, Jacob is still fighting! The ease with which the man inflicts damage on Jacob (the hip—a wrestler's power center) with a touch shows that the man is by far the superior. But again, the physical is the parable of the spiritual. If the wrestler is unable to overcome Jacob, we're talking now about spiritual things, not physical ones. Jacob doesn't know how to yield; he doesn't know how to back off or submit. So "God" (angel, whichever) shows Jacob that his power center needs to yield for God to make any progress with him.
Jacob says, "Bless me!" He has been changed by his experience. His defiance has turned to dependence. He must realize that he can connive and cheat, but he can't bring spiritual blessing to himself. He knows now that he has to submit to God's demands on him. The man changes his name from Jacob to Israel (another parable in real life). Name changing was a way of exercising authority over another person. Jacob accepts the name change, which in this case means he accepted the Lordship of his opponent. His name is changed from "Supplanter" (I do my own fighting) to "God will fight for you."
Jacob understood all of this, of course (I'm not making it up). In v. 30 he called the place Peniel: I saw God face to face, and he didn't kill me." We're not to think Jacob was besting his opponent. Jacob knew this was about his spiritual attitude and his past and future.