Glad to talk and answer. And, by the way, I'm Jim.
> Why would any man, let alone a man of God (Lot), willingly give up his daughters for rape?
Obviously Lot thought this was a workable negotiation or he would not have suggested it. Maybe he was thinking that if the men just needed to ejaculate, he could accommodate them with his daughters and their sexual tension would be relieved, but this doesn’t make sense, because if it was just a need to ejaculate, they could have used each other. So the issue was not sex, nor was it particularly homosexual sex, but sex with his two guests! Then again, the issue of the chapter and the offense was homosexual sex, because they didn’t want the two women.
We still need to understand why he would have offered his two daughters. My brother John has a guess that actually makes sense—that Lot was speaking tongue-in-cheek and not making a serious proposal. "It’s possible that he is not offering his daughters to be gang-raped as much as he is saying, 'I would as soon have you violate my family members as violate those whom I have taken in and offered hospitality!' It might be the same as saying sarcastically to your mortgage company, 'Why don’t you just take the clothes off my children’s backs and the food off their plates?' If this is the case, his statement is meant to prick the conscience of the mob. Just as they would (hopefully) not consider treating a citizen’s daughters in this way, so the same inhibitions should protect his guests."
The "but," however, to me makes this untenable in my view. ("But don't do anything to these men...")
Ancient Hittite morality perceived “abomination” (“this wicked thing” of v. 7) as an offense against the culprit’s city, making them liable to divine wrath. Assyrian law demanded that a homosexual rapist be “cut off” from the community. Other Assyrian laws call for castration in the case of homosexual rape (see my notes on Lev. 18.22). Perhaps Lot is pondering local understandings of judgment and consequences, knowing himself to be a “judge” in the town, and is aware of the repercussions of what they are doing.
Even though in ancient Hittite culture rape was punishable by death, here what Lot is proposing is not technically rape since he is giving a father’s permission. What he is suggesting is a horrid Catch 22 compromise. His moral compromises, the character of the city, and the circumstances of the evening have brought him to an untenable place. He cannot maintain his integrity, protect his guests, protect his family, and indulge his neighbors and friends all at the same time. But why, given the choices, would he give away his daughters to be ravaged? Well, he can’t give away his wife (that’s adultery and punishable by death); he can’t give away his guests (that’s pederasty and punishable by death); he can’t give away himself (it demeans his status in the community, and sex between equals is not what they were after, but a superior-to-submissive penetration common in their era). His only “moral” option, given the horror of his paradox, is to give away his daughters to placate his attackers (such a strategy worked in Judges 19), assume his daughters will get over it (sleeping around may have been more common in their era [cf. Gn. 38.13-26]), and “I’ll somehow survive this night.” It was a horrid conundrum, an impossible moral dilemma, and a life-threatening situation. As Jean Valjean said in
Les Miserables, “If I speak, I am condemned; if I stay silent, I am damned.”
> When the Bible says that Lot's wife turned into a pillar of salt, what do you think actually happened? Truly, she didn't turn into an actual pillar of salt, right?
Right. She didn't. The region is characterized by a lot of salt and sulfur in the soil. What's likely is that God ignited the elements all over the region (perhaps by lightning), and a great explosion took place of petroleum, bitumen, salt, and sulfur (Deuteronomy. 29.23). These elements were thrown into the sky and fell back to earth in flaming rain of ignited material. Meanwhile, Lot's wife, not wanting to leave, changed her mind, turned back (Lk. 17.31-32) and got caught in the mess. The result is that she was overcome by the ignited sulfur and salt and was killed. She was overcome, probably fell to the ground and became to some extent encrusted in the fallout.
> What is the historicity of Sodom and Gomorrah? I believe that this is an actual event.
I have found no reason to doubt its historicity. There is no evidence that makes me question or doubt it.
> Was it an earthquake or some form of natural disaster? God must have known this natural disaster was on the brink so he used it to send a message w/ its destruction of S&G?
There have been several theories.
1. A volcanic eruption. There is plenty of basalt in the region.
2. An earthquake followed by a violent electrical storm, igniting the vast quantities of combustible material. The region does lie on a fault line. (See below for footnote 1)
3. An airburst (see below for footnote 2).
FOOTNOTE 1: Geologists Graham Harris and Anthony Beardow believe that the bitumen common in the area could have ignited during an earthquake and the resulting fire would have helped to destroy the city. There are historical accounts of similar occurrences. In 37 BC, the town of Helice in Greece was reportedly lost through liquefaction, as were thousands of miles of area in China in 1921. More recently, a section of Valdez, Alaska, liquefied in the 1950s.
FOOTNOTE 2: Steven Collins, in Biblical Archaeology Review (2013): "We continue to find significant evidence that some kind of “airburst” (of cosmic origin) occurred over the kikkar sometime between 1750-1650 BC. The magnitude of the event was somewhere between the Tunguska, Siberia airburst of 1908 and the one in 2013 that exploded over southern Russia. All of the phenomenological language of destruction preserved in Gn. 19 is consistent with this kind of cosmic impact. The evidence on the ground also supports such a cataclysmic, targeted destruction.
"Based on the hard evidence at and around Tell el-Hammam, we believe that the disintegration of a cosmic body (comet fragment or small asteroid?) put an end to the sophisticated Bronze Age civilization of the Jordan Disk (kikkar) between 1750-1650. (We’re still working with the diagnostic ceramics and other dating methods.) According to laboratory analysis, the heat index required to produce desert glass and melt the surface of fired pottery in the manner we’re observing exceeds 8,000 degrees Kelvin, or about 14,000 degrees Fahrenheit. This is commensurate with that of cosmic airbursts."