by jimwalton » Wed Mar 05, 2014 5:23 pm
In defining morality, we likely can agree that morality is expressed in several different arenas:
- With fairness and rightness between individuals. This one pertains to relationships.
- With harmonizing things inside each individual. This has to do with self-awareness and understanding oneself.
- With what the purpose of life is. This one concerns what we perceive to be overarching principles of life, built into the nature of things.
None of these elements by themselves encompasses all of what we mean by morality, and also, all of them intersect and cannot be separated. Each one affects the other.
Let me give an illustration: suppose you have a formation of three Blue Angels, the Navy fighter planes. Each plane is clearly its own entity, and can function independently of the other. Each plane has to be in good working order in and of itself. But it's also true that they have to be in their proper position in relation to each other. They also need an overarching purpose, or a plan, or disaster is certain.
But what is the good of all this, and how can collisions be avoided unless there is a steering mechanism? C.S. Lewis says, What is the good of making rules for social behavior, if we know, in fact, that our greed, cowardice, ill-temper, and self-conceit are going to prevent us from keeping them? Without good men you cannot have a good society.
So here's the point. Morality has an objective side to it—the overarching plan and purpose. But each participant has their steering mechanism, and can decide whether to conform to the plan or not.
There are forces, such as gravity, that cannot be disobeyed. But that's not so with many other things, including morality. For instance, there is an "objective mathematics," so to speak, but people still miscalculate, despite the "laws" of math. But anytime you hear a person say, "Hey, that's not fair," you know that some parts of morality are up to the one at the steering wheel who can choose to "miscalculate" and do whatever he wishes to do.
So the answer to your question is, people (I assume you mean Christians, but there are others as well) think homosexuality is wrong because that's what's written in the Bible, i.e., "objective morality." But just like other "moralities," it's up to the one behind the steering wheel to decide whether to conform to the plan or to do what they want to do. And they even have the ability to say, "I think what I did was right." That is what I feel to be a good explanation for it.