All too often, Christians tell me that because I am living a sinful life, I am choosing to go to Hell, and because God loves me, He will give me exactly what I want (which apparently is eternal pain and suffering). If I were to use a situation in context, I would put it like this:
A father has a son, and his son wants to shoot up heroin every weekend. It brings him a sense of euphoria and happiness. Does a loving father "give him what he wants" because he loves him? Or does a loving father stop him, punish him then and there, so his son is able to live a fulfilling life instead of a life of despair which would obviously come later (giving he is just a boy, he doesn't know the extent of the consequences in the end; his father does).
I ask this: If God truly loved us, wouldn't He stop us in our sinful ways rather than let us continue to blindly sin when we don't know the consequences at the end (I am an athiest, so I don't believe I will go to Hell)? I understand the whole "He gives us free will" and all that, but somethings are needed to be forced onto your loved ones, especially when you don't want them to spend all eternity in hellfire. That is what a human father would do, and I'm sure no one would be complaining that he didn't give us free will when it would save us from spending eternity in agony.