Glad to talk to you. May I lay it all out for you? I’ll try not to make it too lengthy, but I do want to answer your questions correctly.
If you are familiar with your Bible, you may want to look at these passages with me. If you don’t have access to a Bible, you can find one online at
www.Biblegateway.comIn Romans 1:20-21, we read that God has made himself known to us, so that we really can know there is a God, and what He is like. The Bible is full of stories and teachings that tell us what God is like.
In the Bible, we also find out what we are like. Romans 3:23 lets us know that we are sinners and separated from God. We’ve all done things that are wrong, and it comes from inside of us where our very being is not aligned with God. None of us is good enough, or can be good enough, to earn our own way to heaven by being a good person. As also James 2:10 says, we’re all guilty.
But even in this condition, God loves us. Romans 5:8 tells us about God’s overwhelming love for us not matter how good or bad we are or have been.
Romans 6:23 tells us that God offers us a gift of salvation. It’s not something we earn or deserve (look at Ephesians 2:8-9). Salvation doesn’t belong to the good, but to whoever wants to receive the free gift that God is offering. If we remain sinners, we remain separated from God. But if we just accept the free gift God offers, it’s ours for the taking. But what’s involved with that? How does one do it?
Romans 10:9-10 tells us to confess and believe. John 1.12 says to receive Jesus. Romans 10:13 tells us to call on the name of the Lord and be saved. There are no religious formulas or rituals. Jesus himself asks us to repent of our sins and believe the good news (Mark 1:15; also look at Acts 2:38). Also read John 3:16.
Here is a sample prayer that someone might pray if you are feeling God’s tug on your heart right now:
“Father, I know that my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.”You see, salvation has nothing to do with being good, but with committing ourselves to Jesus, much as one commits himself to a wife in marriage: I love you, I want to be with you, I want to make you happy, and I’ll do whatever it takes. We are born with a sin nature (Romans 7:18-25; not naturally wanting God or the things of God). But if we want salvation, we are asking God to take that sin nature and change it to the nature of Jesus in us (Romans 8:29), so that we become new (John 3:3; 2 Cor. 5:17). Salvation is not about being good, or being religious. It’s an act of God in us, not something we do for or to ourselves.
To put it in a sequence, God makes himself known to us, and we come to an understanding of who God is, and who Jesus is—also God. We become aware of our sins that separate ourselves from God, and we repent of those—turn away from them. We choose to believe in Jesus, we ask him to change us and our orientation in life, to come into a love relationship with him (Mark 12:29-30). On that basis we commit ourselves to living a godly life. As such we want to go to church to worship him, to learn more about him, and to be friends with other Christians. We start to pray and to read the Bible. We let God continue to teach us about himself and how we’re supposed to act. It’s life transforming.
I’ve probably written enough for now. I don’t want to overwhelm you. But feel free to read and consider what I’ve written, and to write back with responses or more questions. As John 3:16 and Romans 5:8 say, God loves you very much and wants to change your heart by his grace and bring you into relationship with him. If you’re ready, you can take those steps today.
I would love to hear back from you.