by jimwalton » Tue Nov 19, 2019 5:46 pm
> He doesn't seem to want to hit that road yet.
That's a little odd. This should logically be the first road. It seems a little backwards to arrive at a position before studying the logic that contributes to the position. I mean, I get it, because most of us make decisions viscerally rather than logically.
> Maybe because he's had poor experiences with faith in the past
Poor experiences are often the culprit. Again, it's a visceral thing.
> maybe because he wants 100% confirmation at the right one
You're right, 100% isn't going to happen. We deal in plausibilities and the weight of evidence, not in 100% confirmation. Some people get that, and the Holy Spirit often brings a person to that place (as He has with me; when I get asked how certain I am of the existence of God and the truth of Christianity, I can honestly say "100%"). But usually we do abductive reasoning: inferring the most reasonable conclusions based on the weight of evidence.
> He generally seems to believe in the collective unconscious or each of us as humans having subconscious images within us from birth
This sounds like a psychological/philosophical position that was manufactured to explain an a priori position rather than anything there is any evidence for. In other words, he had this idea about roles and relationships, hypothesized a possible explanation, and went with it even though there's no evidence for any such thing. My question for him would be, "Where's the evidence?"
> From birth, we are open to all spirits and/or spiritual experience
This is probably true. Children in their innocence and naïveté are accepting of parental positions about God (and even the Tooth Fairy). When we we get old enough to learn the fiction of Santa, The Easter Bunny, and the Tooth Fairy, there is often doubt about God as well.
> Some people (and i think its higher in females by some accounts) are more susceptible to spiritual encounters
This is true also. Some people are very attuned to the spirit world, some are more susceptible to it, and others never experience it. There still has to be direction toward the truth, however. There are plenty of false spirits out there.
> his wife has had a dark presence that visits her from time to time.
I believe in dark spirits and haunting experiences. The Bible speaks of the devil and his angels as very real beings. We don't really know how his angels do their work (since God's angels don't possess us), but there are obviously ways they can influence our thoughts (most of what the Bible tells us about Satan is a spirit of deceit, and how we as Christians must take our thoughts captive and not let them be swayed).
> She has also had encounters where she is in bed and in form of sleep paralysis and the spirit is over her
Sleep paralysis is assuredly a legitimate phenomenon. What parts spirit beings play in it is much more debatable. I don't understand what calling on ancestors would accomplish; obviously I would call on Jesus. I have very limited knowledge of sleep paralysis.
> 1 Samuel 28 where king Saul goes to a medium and sees the spirit of the now dead prophet Samuel who predicts his death. What do we make of this story? Was it really Samuel? Was it just witch craft? Why would God allow this kind of thing to happen? Or was it all fake? And if it was God, it certainly seems outside his usual methods.
Consultation of the dead was fairly common in the region during that era. It was strictly prohibited in Israel (that's why Saul went in disguise).
The woman seemed surprised that it was actually Samuel who visited, which tells us that the spirits she's used to dealing with were all part of a grand deceit. Samuel is recognized by his clothes (a particular prophetic garment, apparently). Samuel talks about having been "disturbed", which makes us wonder what kind of state he was in in the afterlife. No explanation is given.
Was it really Samuel? Yes.
Or was it just witchcraft? No. The witch seems surprised when Sam actually really shows up.
Why would God allow this thing to happen? Great question. As far as we can tell, it's to cement the demise of Saul's dynasty and to prophesy about Saul's responsibility for Israel's distress (vv. 17-19). It could also be to warn people about sorcery and necromancy—it only brings ruin.
> And if it was God, it certainly seems outside his usual methods.
The Bible is clear that God uses many different methods and means, even godless kings, desperate sinners, astrology (the magi) and witchcraft. God uses sin and evil to his advantage. We must never hem God in.
> Any others that might shed light will help.
The windows to the spirit world are only cracked open for us to get a glimpse. We are told very little. We know general things like
1. They're for real.
2. There is real spiritual power there.
3. They interact with humans.
4. There is a bona fide spiritual battle going on and our minds are the battleground.
5. The main weapons are deceit vs. truth.
We don't know a whole lot more. But this is enough to make us wary, alert, and hopefully wise to stay close to God.