God has made every provision and done everything that is His to do to keep people from going there. But if they still choose to use their free will (and their anger) to reject Him, He can't FORCE them to love Him. Forced love isn't love at all, but rather coercion.
> Where would dammed souls go if hell didn't exist?
Hell is "separation from God." If they were damned, they'd be separated from God. There is no other option.
> I'm sorry to say that I can't trust god.
And I'm very sorry to hear that. Being with God is your only chance for life, since God is life, and separation from God is therefore its opposite, or death.
> And what would the other 10000th of the text say?
The rest of the text tells us how loving and compassionate God is, full of grace and mercy.
> Why? I would honestly prefer it if he forced me.
It's not love if He forces you. Seriously, if you met another man, and he took you captive and said he was going to force you to love him no matter how you felt, it would be slavery, not love, and you know it. It would be rape and sexual slavery, and love would have nothing to do with it.
>> But there are lots of things about existence that can change.
> Like what?
I get to choose where I'm going to live. I got to choose where I went to school and what I majored in. I got to choose my spouse and whether or not to have children. Every day, every conversation, I get to choose whether to be gracious or nasty on this forum. I get to choose whether to forgive someone for hurting me or not. I choose whether to pay attention to my wife or ignore her. I choose how to act when I get angry at her, whether to seek resolution or be a stink about it and not speak to her.
> Yes there was, he told me to love him more than my parents, which is unacceptable.
You'll find that you love your spouse more than your friends. Is that unacceptable, too? There's nothing unacceptable about degrees of love.
> I feel like if god loved me, he wouldn't have commanded my death, made me poor, made my dad get arrested, or all my friends leave me.
God didn't make you poor. God didn't make your dad get arrested. God didn't make all your friends leave you. You are unjustified in blaming all this awfulness on God. God didn't do it.
> I don't see what those have to do with me or most people.
They have to do with millions of people because they are such vast problems involving millions of people.
They don't have anything to do with you. They are answers to your question of "How have we made ourselves into sexual monsters and predators?"
>> Pornography and the objectification of people is ubiquitous.
> That's consensual, so I don't see the issue
Many times it is not. It's part of what sex trafficking and sex slavery is all about.
> That's the result of living under a capitalist Corporatocracy.
You think using sex as an incentive to buy is limited to capitalist environments?? Sex appeal in advertising that has nothing to do with the polity of the nation.
> Can you show me 3 of these?
- On March 27, 2013, I was asked "Why is the gay issue so front and center?" His point in the post was that homosexuality is made the most important issue in the culture, and it is on that basis that God decides where everyone will go (heteros go to heaven, gays go to hell)
- On December 2, 2013, I was asked why christians are so prejudiced as to consider homosexuality the ultimate sin—the end-all and do-all of behavioral morality.
- On March 15, 1017, I was asked, "Why the preoccupation with homosexuality? Why is this the most important question of life?"
- On May 14, 2017, I was asked "Will all masturbaters end up in hell?" As if sexual behavior was how God judged people for their eternal destination.
> That doesn't count
You made a statement: "Jesus has never suffered." Why is it that his suffering doesn't count as refutation to your assertion?
> he ultimately suffered no scars from that experience.
Emotional suffering never leaves physical scars. And his crucifixion most definitely did leave physical scars (John 20.24-28).
>> I agree that we have a responsibility to take good care of the Earth.
> From a Christian perspective, why? God's just going to throw it in the garbage someday.
This is wrong. God is not going to throw it in the garbage some day. The Earth will be where heaven is. The Earth will be reconciled to God and redeemed, and this is where we will spend eternity, for Heaven and Earth will be joined.
> Of course good and evil are real, but they were created by us
Whoa. If good and evil are created by us, you can't blame God for being or doing evil. Evil is OUR thing.
> there's no concept of Sin, no heaven or hell, I believe that there's just a single afterlife.
Explain the afterlife theology of Cernunnosism to me. I see in material that Cernunnos sings to people on their way to the spirit world. Does everyone go? Are there no distinctions? People can be horrifically evil or compassionate and good, and they all end up the same? I don't know much of anything about your religion, so you'll have to school me. I guess my first question is: Does it matter, then, how you live, if there is just a single afterlife?