> What I'm seriously suggesting is that Catholics and Protestants, Evangelicals and liberals don't interpret this text differently.
What are you talking about when you say ‘this text’? We are discussing how Christians interpret the bible. When the two major denominations of Christianity can not even agree which books of the bible are canon there is clearly a pretty major difference in their interpretation of the bible
> We're not discussing God being creative in fabricating something.
Yes, we are discussing why the heck your God thought it was a good idea to give specific instructions that could force women to marry their rapists. Why does pretty much every modern-day society recognise that this would be absolutely abhorrent and yet your God didn't see any problem with it? I get what you are trying to say about it being a different time with a different culture, that they just didn't know any better, but surely your God should have known better?
> I've explained several times that we take the Torah as a whole.
Yes, you have said that already but once again there is absolutely nothing in the bible that says the victim of a rape gets to choose whether she marries her rapist. We do however have specific verses that say it is the father who chooses.
> In Genesis 24.57, in the discussions about marriage, they confer with Rebecca (the bride to be).
Yes, but if you do as you suggest and read the bible wholly you will clearly see in the previous verses of this story how Rebecca doesn't choose to marry Isaac. Genesis 24 describes Abraham telling his servant to go and find a wife for Isaac. Not just any wife mind, it must be a wife from his father’s family. The servant loads up some camels with all the finest things, presumably to buy a wife, and heads off. He pulls up out outside a town, says a little prayer to God basically saying let the next woman who comes up to me be the one you have chosen for Isaac and ta-da! Rebekah turns up. He remarks how beautiful she is, and how great it is that she is a virgin. He gives her some bling, does another quick prayer to God thanking him for finding a bride for Isaac and then off they pop to her father. Rebekah's father seems impressed by the bling. He confirms that he is Abraham's nephew and after a couple of veiled threats from the servant he agrees to give Rebekah to him, only after he receives some pretty decent bling himself of course. Rebekah's only choice in all this was when she decided to leave immediately with the servant because he was starting to get angry at not being able to leave with her straight away.
> In 1 Samuel 25.41, Abigail decides on her on to become David's wife.
Once again, I think you need to read your bible a bit more. 1 Samuel 25 describes how David and his men turn up at the house of Nabal and demand food and supplies. Nabal refuses so they come back later and threaten Nabal's wife, Abigail. She collects some food and supplies and goes to David and pleads for mercy. He grants her mercy and lets her on her way. She goes home and a few days later her husband gets struck down by God. David praises the Lord for killing Nabal and then sends his men to go and get Abigail. Abigail, unsurprisingly, agrees to go and then tells David that she is his servant and will wash his feet. Oh, and the chapter ends with David taking yet another wife after giving one of his wives to someone else.
You have provided two examples that you claim show that women in the bible can choose who they marry but your examples do nothing of the sort, if anything they just support the notion that they can not.
> You're talking about Ex. 21.7-11. Again, some study on your part would be of value rather than just surface reading. And some background information about the culture. The section is about marriage. You'll notice here that the sale of a daughter into slavery is a marriage arrangement as a way of paying off a debt. As such, once the debt is paid, or if the seventh year came around, she could go free
Exodus 21: 7-11 doesn’t say that at all… “If a man sells his daughter as a servant, she is not to go free as male servants do.” Exodus 21:7. In fact if you read the previous verses it just further reinforces the instruction that female servants do not go free… “If his master gives him a wife and she bears him sons or daughters, the woman and her children shall belong to her master, and only the man shall go free.”
> But if the daughter wished to marry the man who was now her "employer," so to speak, that was an option as well.
Nope… “ If she does not please the master who has selected her for himself…” Exodus 21:8. She doesn’t get to choose if the master selects her for himself, he selects her. In fact, just a few verses down it describes how the master can select her for his son if he wants to
> There is nothing about this that is brutal.
Well I suppose if you just ignore the whole ‘Being able to sell a woman into slavery and the slave master then being able to make her his wife’ thing then sure.
> Excuse me?
The women in the bible are second class citizens. The very first chapters of the bible set the tone when in Genesis 2:20-24 God creates Eve to be a helper to Adam. Given how utterly barbaric the bible treats women I really don’t see why you find it so hard to accept that it clearly gives instructions on how a women can be forced to marry her rapist.
> Though they had legal right to exercise capital punishment, there's no record that anyone ever did.
Well we do have records of God commanding the Israelites to commit genocide against the Midianites, with specific instructions to keep the virgins for themselves, but are you really suggesting that just because we don’t have records of women that were killed for being unable to prove their virginity that this somehow excuses the specific instructions that say they should be?
> Just as in our society man criminals are sentenced to death, but few are executed.
Ah, so because only a few were executed for being unable to prove their virginity that makes it ok. Gotcha…
> I digested "The Lost World of the Torah" by Walton and Walton…
Great, so could you perhaps give an overview of why you think the explicit instructions given in the Torah (The book of ‘instructions’ as you called it yourself) are not actual instructions and a merely a guide of what to do?
> None of the Torah is legislative.
Ah, so for instance the Hebrews didn’t have to follow the commandment to have no other God other than Yahweh? That was merely a suggestion of what they should do?
> They were only "property" in the sense that they were an important part of the economic picture—a financial asset to the family.
A financial asset that can be sold. But yeah they are not really ‘property’, it’s not like the father can sell his daughter and be financially rewarded for doing so… Oh wait…
> If the family were in debt, the fam could farm out themselves or the kids as work for hire.
Cool, a good old slice of child labor never harmed anyone.
> The "master" didn't own the person.
“Your male and female slaves are to come from the nations around you; from them you may buy slaves. You may also buy some of the temporary residents living among you and members of their clans born in your country, and they will become your property.” Leviticus 25:44-46.
> “When the debt was paid, the worker could go "free."
Not if they were a women. ““If a man sells his daughter as a servant, she is not to go free as male servants do.” Exodus 21:7
> The dad wasn't selling his daughter to make money. She was working for his lender to pay off a debt.
Ah, so the father was simply selling his daughter to pay off his debts. Great.
> The dowry (given by the father to the bride) provided security for the wife.
Huh? Where the heck have you got the idea that the father gives the dowry to his daughter?
> She has more rights than a male in the sense that she can be freed from slavery.
I think this is the third time I have had to quote this now… “If a man sells his daughter as a servant, she is not to go free as male servants do.” Exodus 21:7.