by jimwalton » Sat Jul 24, 2021 11:02 pm
Thanks for asking the questions and for sticking in with the conversation. Glad to respond.
> If it had nothing to do with sex, then why did their virginity matter in deciding whether they lived or died?
It's because the Midianite women had seduced the men of Israel, both sexually (to adultery) and spiritually (to idolatry). Those women were guilty, but any girl who was a virgin hadn't been involved, so those girls were OK to bring back and assimilate into Israel. It had nothing to do with making sex slaves.
> Also, I love how you just ignore the fact that before this, God had commanded a genocide, as if that would ever be morally justified.
I'm not ignoring anything. If you've done any research on the subject, you'll quickly learn that the language of "kill 'em all" was ancient warfare rhetoric meaning "win a decisive victory." Archaeological examples from Thutmosis, Hittite king Mursilli, Ramses II of Egypt, the Merneptah Stevel, and Moab's King Mesha, along with the Bible, prove that those these kings declared "We killed 'em all!", those populations continued into the future. There was no genocide.
Also, in the Bible, the word cherem, often translated "kill 'em all," is misleading. It more accurately means "removal of something from human use." And though at times it means destruction, mostly of the time it means a thing it dedicated to God. In the case of the Midianites, the Israelites are taking away their identity as a people group—a much more accurate understanding. I can give you the full explanation of what's going on here, but it would have to be a separate post because of its length.
In any case, what is happening here is not genocide. The Midianites were a large confederation of nomadic tribes roaming all through the areas of Sinai, the Negev, and the Transjordan. The Israelites are not riding through the entire Middle East slaughtering innocents. If you actually read the chapter, you'll see that the particular Midinaites associated with Moab are the ones who are targeted. This particular collection of villages had been hostile to Israel. They are the target. By executing the 5 kings of Midian (v. 8), they are seeking to destroy their sense of identity (what holds them togethers as a people group), so they become powerless and leaderless. This is no genocide. We can discuss it further if you wish.
We also know the Midianites were not wiped out. They show up later in the times of the Judges (Judges 6.12. Gideon defeated them in Judges 7, but they're still around as a people group. The prophet Habakkuk (Hab. 3.7) mentions them in about 600 BC, so they're still around then. This is no genocide.
> Also, women WERE taken as spoils of war for sex. Dt. 21.10-14
They were not. You are wrong once again. As Wendy Alsup writes, "God restricted Israelite men from using captive women as sexual slaves. If a man desired a female captive sexually, he must marry her. This restriction seems to be the first in history limiting the sexual exploitation of captives. Earlier Egyptian laws and later Roman laws prohibited rape, but only against a citizen in good standing. Female captives and slaves, well into Paul’s day and even into early American history, were viewed not as citizens but as property without rights over their own bodies. This was not the case in the Bible." If an Israelite wanted a female captive sexually, he had to make vows to her in the covenant relationship of marriage, which obligated him to protect and care for her.
You'll notice in v. 14 that the woman was protected from misuse and abuse. This law was written to protect women, not to allow abuse. You've to it wrong.
> How can any of this be from a moral deity?
Because God is protecting the women of war, unlike what other cultures did.
> There is nothing moral in the bible when it comes to sex or slavery.
You've already shown that your knowledge of what the Bible teaches is woefully inadequate. The Bible doesn't allow abuse the it comes to sex or slavery. The Law actually protects both vulnerable groups. We can talk about it more if you wish, but you are wrong about all your assumptions and accusations.